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There is this show called the Ex-List on CBS that looked pretty cute and I was told it was pretty cute so I just sat down to watch it for the first time tonight and it is really cute.  It’s about this girl who meets a psychic who tells her the guy that is “the one” for her is someone she went out with before so she is going back through the list of all the guys she went out with to hopefully come across him again.  It was really cute and in tonight’s show there was a really good line where her dad goes something like he never liked the guy she dated in high school because all he saw was a punk that didn’t care about his daughter and that hadn’t changed even though it was 16 years later.  (This was a guy she was in love with in high school and she met him and went out with him a few times.)

Unfortunately my ex list is fairly short and very uninteresting.  Included are a guy who is 40 years my senior who is a partner at a large law firm who is now married.  A US Assistant Attorney who is probably either gay or so into his work that he wouldn’t realize I was standing in front of him naked and who is kind of boring even though he is great on paper and is probably fairly wealthy since his signing bonus with a large law firm after he finished his clerkship at the United States Supreme Court was the equivalent of one year’s salary at a large law firm! And I don’t know a couple of losers including a guy who cheated on his wife and told me he was a spy to get out of it.  These are the people who are on my short list of ex’s.  God help me if one of those guys is “the one”! But on that note the guy that was in my building who I thought may have been interested is currently dating someone and I ran into them going out as I was coming back from the grocery store after having gone to the gym and it was kind of that sickening him gazing completely into her eyes type of relationship that kind of made me want to barf.  So apparently he is not gay as I might have thought.  And I don’t think he would have noticed I was there even if I was naked.  So part of me is like oh well I guess it wasn’t meant to be but the other part of me is I am much cuter than her and if he only ASKED ME OUT we would have gone out!!! So I don’t get it and I really don’t know what I am suppose to do.  Perhaps I could have played that differently but I didn’t because that’s not me to do so! I believe guys should ask girls out and if you don’t do something so simple as that then I don’t think that anything else will work.

The million dollar question is where does one find someone who cares about them? Perhaps it’s with a co-worker? Someone who gets to know you over time? The only person who would even be remotely possible is this guy who at my staff retreat was a field person who is working on a database for pesticides.   He I guess could have been cute but I didn’t actually really talk to him besides when he came up and introduced himself.  Kind of odd these guys who are field/scientist types– I don’t quite understand them. Anyway I think I am off to bed since I am wiped from my staff retreat!

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